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Thursday, January 22, 2015

15 Minutes a Day

I am into scrapbooks! I look at them. I make them. I gather with others at "crops" to learn new designs and techniques (or more often, to laugh, fellowship and eat!) I also teach the art of scrapbooking. My motto as a teacher is:
  • A scrapbook a month in 15 minutes a day.
This is based on 5 days EVERY week. If you skip a day (or worse still a week!), you won't finish on time. Once that happens, I've found, the scrapbooker will:
  1. Lose interest - especially if you don't have a dedicated space, you'll find yourself burying the materials, and then you'll have to deal with the pile-up before you can crop again.
  2. Get discouraged - This happens because you missed your goal. And since most of us scrap for ourselves (not professionally for others), this means we've let ourselves down. This is often self-perpetuating, because we feel bad about not doing other things or we haven't taken time for ourselves or 100's of other reasons we find to beat ourselves up.
  3. Take longer to get a book done - The simple reason is that scrapbooking is so personal, it depends on you - your ideas, creativity and attention. When you skip, you lose your train of thought. "Now why did I pick THAT paper to go with that picture?" "What WAS I thinking when I chose THOSE embellishments?" When you touch your art every day, you are much more inclined to remember lessons learned, and trains of thought don't jump the track as often.
  4. Forget where the picture was taken and who was in it - I often work with people who've put boxes and boxes of pix in closets or basements and forgotten about them. This is especially true when the pictures are separated from their original roll (yes, many people still have photos on rolls!). Even on the smartphones, if pictures aren't tagged, sometimes they're forgotten.
Why would your pastor give you a newsletter article about the ins and outs of scrapbooking? Well, it's because the same principles apply in our spiritual lives! Want to grow spiritually? It just takes 15 minutes a day! Pray for 15 minutes. Read the word for 15 minutes. Meditate for 15 minutes. Every day. For a month. Then tell me what's happened in your life! In my personal and professional experience I have found that, if we skip a day or a week, we will:
  1. Lose interest - If we only pray once in awhile, we don't see consistent results. The prayer requests mount up. The worries and trials multiply. By the time we finally get around to praying, we are in a very dark place. Why put ourselves through that?
  2. Get discouraged - time with God is time for us to re-fuel. So many things in our lives make demands on us. We have lost the whole idea of Sabbath time. It's not just a good idea, it's essential to our health and well-being! If we don't pause for "me & God" time, it's like constantly writing checks on our account without ever making a deposit! So we get used up, burned out and hopeless very quickly. Some people never come back to prayer after a long absence because they feel guilty. Again, why put ourselves through that?
  3. Take longer to grow into the likeness of Christ - How can we follow someone we don't trust? How can we be like someone we don't know? I'm a huge fan of Billy Graham, but I could never be like him because I don't know that much about him. If you don't spend time with God, how will you know you can trust him? How will you know you are His beloved? How will you know how to love in His name?
  4. Forget - In one of Jesus' last acts on earth, he told his followers to "Remember me." We remember by using the means of grace he gave us. We pray. We study. We read His Word. We gather with other believers. We renew our commitments. We prioritize. We choose. We remember in Holy Communion. We remember in living our lives to please God, not others.
So, as we approach the season of Lent, think about committing to 15 minutes a day spent with God. Every day. Every week. Every month.  And remember, if you don't do it perfectly, there is ALWAYS forgiveness!

Love in Christ,
Pastor Caren